Many women find it hard to know what's going on in a man's mind. I know lots of my female friends do. Dating and relationships are very frustrating sometimes when you don't know what the man is thinking or feeling. So I'll help you delve deep into the depths of the male psyche so you can understand men's mind's better and improve your dating and relationships with the opposite sex.
So you want to understand the importance of "The Spark?"
Well to illustrate my point I heard this anecdote recently. A friend of a friend was dating a guy purely because she felt sorry for him. She went out with this guy for the better part of six months, but they never did anything sexual. The poor guy got more and more annoyed. He thought she liked him but she didn't. Eventually it all ended it tears. It always hurts to reject someone. But if I was going to be rejected I would want it done quickly and sharply in the beginning of the relationship, not six months down the line when I'd already invested some much time and emotional energy into it. Wouldn't you feel the same way?
Knowing what you want out of a relationship and how to say "No" when you're not offered it is very, very important. Even if a man is really nice person and interested in you doesn't mean you should still pursue the relationship. If there is no attraction and no spark it will all end in tears. Even worse than that you could end up locked in a dead end relationship that you hate.
So I hope you understand men just a little bit better now. And remember there are loads of quality guys out there so whatever you do, don't settle!
By Rodney DeLatouche
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